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Creative Corner - Emotions

Have you ever gotten the sinking feeling that a friend has been saying awful things behind your back? I’ve had that unsettling feeling in the pit of my stomach for a while.

I know you’re probably thinking, This friend is so not your friend, Girl. Get over her and move on. I know that’s good advice, but I just can't shake the feeling that we’re supposed to be friends.

Every time I know what she's saying about me, I know I should dump her like last week’s spaghetti, but I know what it feels like and how much it hurts. I know that in the long run not an inch of what’s happening will really matter, but it still bothers me.

I pray right now for all of my Sisses that you won’t have to feel the pain of a situation like mine. I hate it that I don’t have a backbone, but what I hate more is that every little thing I hear matters. Whether it’s the smallest piece of gossip or a back-stabbing friend, everything matters.

That was my way to depict how I feel about my emotions. I know what hurts most about the entire situation is that my friend would ever try to stab me in the backbone. This is where one of my favorite quotes comes into play.

"Pain is God's megaphone to awaken a starving and sleeping world."

This quote describes exactly how I feel right now. I know, however, no matter what, that God is with me.  He’s there through everything. Psalms 23 remind me: “He makes me lie down in green pastures. Even as I walk through the valley, of the shadow, of Death, I shall fear no evil.”

I can’t say that I’ve been incredibly strong through this experience, but I can say this: I'm not dead. I have life, and my life will be lived to the fullest. I’ll learn to live with God and without evil. I’ll learn to show people what I believe.

I hope I’ll be alive when my Lord, comes again. Though that may not happen, I still know one thing: He loves me no matter what. He’s the Savior of my soul. And I know I’m saved. That’s something no one, not even the ruler of the shadow of death, can take away from me.
   
by Erin
British Columbia, Canada
 
Posted by Global Administrator on 5/18/2010 9:50:17 AM


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livelovelaugh416
I know how you feel. :(
5/20/2010 10:44:33 PM

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celine7smile
Hey, girl. I am sincerely sorry for you. But I am glad that you have found wisedom in the situation-- pain is a wake up tool for God.
I'm proud of you. Keep your head up high, I'll be praying for you.
5/24/2010 6:25:28 PM

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myfatherisking
Hey girl,
I understand that it may seem like you need to be friends with this girl, and I know this doesn't seem like original advice, I'm just wondering: have you confronted her about this? Have you told her that you know what she says about you and how much it hurts you? Maybe it won't help... or maybe, just maybe, she'll try to be more sensitive to how she's treating you. I know how hard it can be to have a friend stab u in the back, but if it's hurting you this badly, and your determined to be friends you really need to have a serious talk with her about this.
Hope this helps :)
6/4/2010 12:00:59 AM

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mcshawgirl
that last line was so inspiring. i really know how you feel...
6/14/2010 3:06:12 PM

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YouRmySonshine
i know exactly how you feel because i went through a very similar experience. just like i know you will, i came out of this stronger and closer to God and i'll be praying for you.
6/16/2010 9:24:55 AM

sarahloveschrist
Hey, listen to the song "Don't Worry Now" by Britt Nicole, or look up the lyrics. You won't regret hearing it! Powerful song
6/21/2010 7:46:38 PM

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lovegod65
I like that
6/21/2010 9:02:09 PM

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silentdancer94
Girl, I go through the same thing...atleast you have us sissies! :)
7/15/2010 10:50:54 AM

Izzy
Wow. I loved this. Really really beautiful (& for me a tear jerker!). My & my twin sis' best friend started acting horrible towards us last summer & we still haven't completely healed because we live in the same neighborhood, were best friends for 6 straight years, & she lied about what she did to us when we asked her about it. I'll be praying for you, Erin.
P.S. I hope I'm alive when Jesus comes back too!
8/20/2010 10:03:35 AM

JesusFreak1995
Hey I know exactly how you feel. One of my does that all of the time. But in the end she is a good friend. One day your friend might need you though. Something bad might happen, and she might need someone to be there for her. If you're the one that's there for her she'll probably realize that what a good friend you are and that the way she's been treating you is wrong. So hang in there. I'll be praying for you all of the way.
9/21/2010 2:13:38 PM

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